Via Scottie Lowe (@Afroerotik on Twitter): I’m always discouraged when I read comments from Black women that ultimately relate to identifying a man’s “gayness”. It seems that Black women have constructed absurd and ridiculous notions of what makes a man gay, or unacceptable as a partner. It seems that Black women have constructed equally disturbing rules and notions of what makes a man “a real man”. Black women are striving for characteristics in men that make them the worst possible partners and then we cry how there are no good men.
A lot of people joke about this, but it's actually true. I'm not trying to make a point that black women are the reason why there aren't any good men left, but honestly, we're not helping. It seems that we want the men that make everything BUT us a priority. As long as our bills are paid and our weave is fixed, it's all good. Who cares about stimulating conversation, emotional nourishment, and lovemaking so good you could swear your souls touched? But that's just me. Let me know what y'all think about this. Peace.
-jihad.
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